Dear Mr. Know-It-All,
I’ve been in a serious, committed relationship for the last year and a half, and my boyfriend is really sweet to me. He’s very attentive and sensitive to my feelings and all, but things between the sheets leave something to be desired. I really love him but I want our sex life to be amazing. Please help.—Sexually frustrated and hopelessly in love
First of all, you deserve a smack on the head for waiting this long before writing to me. But the first step to solving a problem is admitting you have one (my AA sponsor taught me that), so props for that. Secondly, I feel inclined to ask, “Are you sure your boyfriend’s straight?” I digress, but let’s just assume for argument’s sake that he is. So back to your issue—you could always attend a sex and intimacy workshop by Eros Coaching (www.eroscoaching.com). Alternatively, a less intimidating and infinitely more fun way of dealing with this is to introduce some accoutrements the next time you’re getting busy. Try Mr & Mrs Smith The Couple Store (www.liberator.sg) which stocks everything from massage oils and stimulating creams, to vibrators and love swings. And if things don’t work out with Mr. Sweet & Sensitive, don’t forget Mr. Know-It-All is always at your service.
Dear Mr. Know-It-All,
I’m a slim, well-endowed woman who’s been having problems finding a brassiere in my size ever since I moved here from Australia. I’ve had to fly to London, Berlin and beyond to get decent, affordable ones my size. The bargain bin bras here are often padded and never fit me. Can you recommend some lingerie stores that would stock my size?— 32D
Oh poor busty you. Fortunately, you’ve come to the right place. One good option is Marks & Spencer (#03-33/40 Paragon Shopping Centre, 290 Orchard Rd., 6732-9732), which has sizes all the way up to 42F. Granted, not all of them are lookers, but they’ve got some fantastic unlined, non-padded lace options. While you’re in the area, stop by La Senza (#03-01 Paragon Shopping Centre, 290 Orchard Rd., 6333-8611) for a selection of colorful and flirty bras in sizes up to 38DD. While these options often don’t come cheap, I reckon if you can afford to go all the way to London and Berlin to shop for lingerie, you can afford what’s here. Just keep a lookout for sales, and in the time you’ve spent looking out for the perfect bra, you would have saved up enough for a pricey sexy stunner anyway. Happy shopping!